The Presbyterian funeral or memorial service is “A Service of Witness to the Resurrection” and an integral part of Christian worship. It is a service of worship of the congregation in which we seek to honor God and comfort those who mourn. We do this by celebrating the Resurrection and affirming the profound hope we have through the love and grace of our risen Lord. Joining with others, we give our pain, our memories, our hopes, and our gratitude to God. 

Type of Service

The pastor will be present with loved ones at the time of loss and will help arrange the service. It is important to provide the name of the funeral director so that the church can coordinate the day and time of the service. There are several forms of services:

Funeral: A funeral service is usually conducted within days of death. It is generally held at the church although it can be held at a funeral home. The closed casket or urn may be present.

Memorial: A memorial service is conducted at the church and can take place days or weeks after death. A longer timeline can allow more opportunity for friends and family to receive notice and make arrangements to attend. The casket or urn is not present.

Committal: The committal is a short service at the graveside or columbarium that specifically ministers to the needs of loved ones. It consists of brief scripture readings and prayers. The committal may accompany a funeral or memorial service and be held either before or after the service. The service can be a small gathering for close relatives of the deceased person.

Order of Service

The content of the funeral or memorial service is the responsibility of the officiating pastor and is guided by the Directory for Worship in the Book of Order and the Book of Common Worship.

The Service of Witness to the Resurrection has some basic components which include:

Call to Worship;
Prayer of Invocation;
Readings from the Old and New Testaments;
Tributes and Remembrances (optional);
Pastoral Prayer;
The Lord’s Prayer;
Music, hymns, or solos (optional);

These components may vary somewhat. The officiating pastor shapes the order of service in consultation with loved ones and the previously expressed wishes of the deceased.

The service is intended to be personal, while praising and thanking God that in life as in death, we are held securely in God’s hands. Family and friends are invited to participate in the service when appropriate. A limited number of people may be invited to offer brief remembrances during the service, which is arranged in advance with the officiating pastor.

Scriptures and Hymns

The following are a selection of particularly appropriate scriptures and hymns for use in the service or for your private reflections.

Old Testament Scripture:

Job 19:23–27  I know that my redeemer lives
Ecclesiastics 3:1–15  For everything there is a season
Isaiah 25:6–9  God will swallow up death forever
Isaiah 40:1–11 Comfort my people
Isaiah 40:28–31  Those who wait for the Lord
Isaiah 43:1–3a, 18–19, 25  When you pass through the waters
Isaiah 44:6–8  I am the first and I am the last
Isaiah 55:1–3, 6–13  Everyone who thirsts
Isaiah 61:1–4, 10–11  The spirit of the Lord is upon me
Isaiah 65:17–25  I create new heavens and a new earth
Lamentations 3:19–26, 31–32  The Lord’s steadfast love
Daniel 12:1–3  Many of those who sleep in the dust shall awake
Joel 2:12–13, 23–24, 26–29  Return to the Lord with all your heart

The Psalms:

Psalm 16:5–11 The Lord is my chosen portion
Psalm 23 The Lord is my Shepherd
Psalm 27:1, 4–9a, 13–14 The Lord is my light and my salvation
Psalm 39:4–5, 12 Lord, let me know my end
Psalm 42:1–6a As a deer longs for flowing streams
Psalm 43 Why are you cast down, O my soul
Psalm 46:1–5, 10–11 God is our refuge and strength
Psalm 90:1–10, 12 Lord, you have been our dwelling place
Psalm 91 You who live in the shelter of the Most High
Psalm 103 Bless the Lord, O my soul
Psalm 106:1–5 O give thanks to the Lord
Psalm 116:1–9, 15 The Lord has heard my voice
Psalm 118 Open the gates of righteousness
Psalm 121 I lift up my eyes to the hills
Psalm 130 Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord
Psalm 139:1–12 O Lord, you have searched me and known me
Psalm 145 I will extol you, my God and King
Psalm 146 Praise the Lord, O my soul!

New Testament Scripture:

Matthew 5:1–12a The Beatitudes
Luke 23:33, 39–43 Remember me when you come into heaven
John 3:16–21 For God so loved the world
John 11:17–27 I know he will rise again in the resurrection
John 14 Do not let your hearts be troubled
Romans 8:14–25 All led by Spirit of God are sons and daughters
Romans 8:31–35 Nothing can separate us from the love of God
Romans 14:7–9 We do not live to ourselves
1 Corinthians 15:20–26, 35–38, 42–44, 53–58 Where, O death, is your victory?
2 Corinthians 4:16–5:1 A house eternal in the heavens
Philippians 4:4–9 Rejoice in the Lord always
1 Thessalonians 4:13–18 God will bring with him those who have died
Revelation 21:1–4, 22–25, 22:3–5 Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth

Suggested Hymns:

The following hymns, suitable for use at a funeral or memorial service, are found in the Presbyterian Hymnal.

Opening Hymns of Praise

A Mighty Fortress is our God 
Come, Christians, Join to Sing 
Rejoice, the Lord is King 
The God of Abraham Praise 

Hymns Focusing on the Resurrection

Christ the Lord is Risen Today! 
Lead On, O King Eternal 
Lift High the Cross 
The Day of Resurrection! 

Hymns with Reference to Saints

For all the Saints 
I Sing a Song of the Saints of God

Hymns Focusing on the Presence and Comfort of God

Abide with Me
O Love That Wilt Not Let Me Go 
The King of Love My Shepherd Is 
The Lord’s My Shepherd 
Christ is Made the Sure Foundation 
Come Sing, O Church, in Joy

Other Elements at the Service

Scheduling a Service:
The Pastor ordinarily work with the loved ones to set a date for the funeral or memorial service, and will help coordinate communication with the funeral director in a timely way so that notice may be included with the obituary sent to the newspapers, with attention to publication deadlines. 

Music at the Service:
A musician for the service will be arranged through the pastor. By request, a soloist or special music can be arranged. 

Floral Arrangements:
We can provide names of florists who are familiar with the church. Most flowers along with other tributes such as photographs and a guest book may be displayed in the lobby and at the reception.

Loved ones may choose to host a reception following the service that gives family and friends time to visit. YPC can provide space for a reception.  All arrangements should be coordinated with our Deacons through the pastor.